To disable automatic calendar additions:

  • Open Google Calendar.
  • Click the gear icon and select Settings in the upper right part of the screen.
    Gmail calendar settings
  • Under Event settings, change Add invitations to my calendar to either Only if the sender is known or When I respond to the invitation email. (The default setting is From everyone, which will add any invite to your calendar.)
  • Uncheck Show events automatically created by Gmail if you want to stop Gmail from adding to your calendar on its own.